Entry 23- Why I learnt to speak Ga

When people ask me how I speak Ga, I always laugh because the reasons for being intentional about it were foolish but worthy ones- If I do say so myself. LOL.

Out and about in London with my cousin, we were chatting away, catching up, and laughing about everything in sight. As this older lady got off the bus, she mentioned that it would be best to speak in a language foreign to many because everyone knew what we were chatting about. My cousin and I looked at each other, looked around at the people on the bus, looked back at the aunty, and said, "Thank you, aunty," before going mute for a hot second.

We blurted out laughing right after because the nice lady was right, and it was in that moment that I decided I was going to have my cousin teach me how to speak Ga. And, ladies and gentlemen, that is how a Fante woman picked up the language—obviously for kokonsa reasons.

Why have I shared this story? Go back and read it again; I will wait.

You still don't get it? Okay, you may continue reading.

The Bible encourages intentional living, urging us to make purposeful decisions and live with clarity and direction. Proverbs 4:26 advises, "Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways." Similarly, Ephesians 5:15-16 reminds us to "be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity." Living intentionally means aligning our actions with God's will, seeking wisdom, and making the most of the time and resources given to us.

This story illustrates that even seemingly trivial decisions can have meaningful outcomes when approached with intention and awareness. What started as a lighthearted moment with my cousin became a valuable skill and a way to connect more deeply with my family. It’s a reminder that being intentional, even in the small things, can lead to unexpected and enriching results.

In the same way, the Bible teaches us to be deliberate in our actions, understanding that our choices shape our lives and reflect our faith. By living purposefully, we honor God and make the most of the opportunities He provides. So, whether it's learning a new language for fun or making significant life decisions, do it with intention and trust that God will guide your path.

As I have come to learn, Nyɔmɔ ajɔɔ bo!


Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of life and the wisdom Your Word provides. Help us to live intentionally, making purposeful decisions that honor You. Guide our steps, Lord, and give us clarity and direction in all we do. May we seek Your will, use our time wisely, and be steadfast in our faith. Grant us the discernment to make the most of every opportunity and the courage to align our actions with Your divine plan.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Entry 22- Looking for Sadness

Have you ever tried to intentionally feel sad? Like you're sifting through your emotions like a filing system, looking for the folder labeled "Sad"? I can tell you; I have—and it’s quite amusing when you realize God has already helped you move past it.

A couple of days ago, I was going through a tough time. I realized I was in a shallow place and had distanced myself from God. I was trying to handle situations on my own that God had already taken care of. This only made me feel worse.

The Bible says, "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7). Yet, I was burdening myself with things God had already addressed.

After an intense conversation with my friend, who is a doctor, I understood I was being childish. They reminded me of Isaiah 41:10: "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

I realized that everything has been dealt with in eternity. God has a plan for us, as stated in Jeremiah 29:11: "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

Understanding this, I felt a sense of peace and joy, knowing that God's got this. Romans 8:28 assures us, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."

So, next time you find yourself digging through that emotional filing system, remember that God has already taken care of it. Trust in Him and let go of your worries. Everything truly has been dealt with in eternity.

If you're going through a period of uncertainty, doubt, fear and anxiety, do pray this prayer.

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a heart heavy with fear and anxiety. I cast all my burdens and worries upon You, knowing that You care for me deeply. Strengthen me, Lord, and uphold me with Your righteous right hand. Remind me of Your promises and fill me with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help me to trust in Your perfect plan and find rest in Your everlasting arms. Thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Entry 21- Thank God for the COVID-19 Lockdown Pt.1

Through the chaos and uncertainty of the COVID-19 season, I stumbled upon an unexpected reset that I didn't know I needed. The world had slowed down, forcing me to reconnect with the simple joys of life that I'd often overlooked in the hustle and bustle of pre-pandemic days.

I spent, quality time with my family. We had endless bonding sessions, from braiding my sisters' hair to hosting cozy movie nights that often turned into impromptu dance parties. We tried our hands at new recipes, some successful and others... well, let’s just say they were learning experiences. Even the moments of shared boredom became special as we found comfort in each other's company.

On a more personal level, I dedicated time to working out alone, rediscovering my passion for fitness, and watching my health improve. This period also deepened my relationship with God. Initially, I prayed out of fear and uncertainty, but over time, prayer became my sanctuary, my special, happy place. I curated a "Dear God" playlist filled with soulful tunes that accompanied me through every activity. Immersing myself in the Bible app and joining Christian rooms on Clubhouse became part of my daily routine. Remember when everyone suddenly became a thought leader on every topic? Yeah, that part of the COVID season, I could have done without.

In the midst of all this, something "wholly" and unexpected happened—I found love. It still amazes me how, during a time of global isolation, I connected with someone so deeply online. Any man who could capture my full attention without ever meeting in person was definitely someone special. Let's laugh—1,2,3 L.O.L!

Our connection began on Twitter, or as it's now known, "X." It all started with one of those online games, the kind that sparks light-hearted banter and endless conversations. As we talked every day, what started as a distraction from the monotony of lockdown life blossomed into an unexpected relationship. Mind you, dating was the last thing on my mind; I had sworn off men for good- I should've stayed that way but hey, we thank God for unexpected experiences.

Then came the unexpected phone call that changed everything. It was during this call that I realized he was my person. As soon as the restrictions on outdoor activities were lifted, I couldn't wait to see him in person. The anticipation of that long drive, the thought of finally being with him, filled me with a joy I hadn't felt in a long time. To a woman in love, what was a long drive? Absolutely nothing!

To the one reading this, I pray you immerse yourself in unexpected experiences.

Remember God can use anyone, anything and any situation to teach us lessons and turn our lives around. Even when we think He is not working, He is at work- I pray you never forgot that no matter how difficult it gets.

Amen